Lydia, our little red-haired angel, is gone

Lydia, my eight year-old niece is dead. No parent should ever see their child die before their eyes, but that's exactly what my sister-in-law and her husband went through this morning.

I don't have all the details but my niece Lydia was killed in a storm-related accident while camping. A storm hit their campsite at 2am this morning, knocking out a tree that crushed the little angel's life out.

More details here.

Lydia died while her mom tried desperately to clutch with her hands to her life. Unfortunately, neither she nor her husband could not move the tree and had to wait to be assisted by the state park's emergency unit.

The most horrible part of the story is that they were all sleeping in the same tent when this happened. The tree only hit Lydia. My in-laws were not harmed.

My kids saw me and their father crying. They don't understand they will never see their little cousin ever again. Unfortunately, my in-laws are not holding a wake, so the loss may never sink in.

I can't imagine the pain my SIL is going through. Lydia was her only child.

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Liza Sabater is the founding blogger and publisher of culturekitchen and Daily Gotham. She also a new media producer and social technologist with 10 years experience. You can reach her at blogdiva [at] culturekitchen.com or follow her on Twitter at http://twitter.com/blogdiva

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Irisblue's picture

Your Niece

How horrible! I cannot even begin to imagine the pain your family is going through. Nothing can prepare you for these kinds of tragedies.
My heart and prayers go out to your sister and her husband, as well as the rest of your family.

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thanks

thanks

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Deep Thought's picture

If there is anything

that we can do, please let us know. Talk, listen to screaming, send dinner....

Our prayers are with your family

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NanceConfer's picture

I am

so sorry to hear about your family's loss.

You will all be in our thoughts.

Nance

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Lorraine's picture

I am crying

Oh Liza. I am so sorry. I am sending you and your family love.

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Jeffrey Langstraat's picture

I'm so sorry

I can't begin to imagine how this has to hurt. My best wishes to everyone.

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JJ Ross's picture

This is the part

where I fear the blogosphere really can't substitute for more traditional human warmth and support. But we're all here, and will be here when you come up for air. Hold your boys very close and never mind us for awhile --

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Danielle, CBB publsher's picture

Liza, words cannot express

Liza, words cannot express my sympathy. what an awful tragedy. my mother's granddaughter died last year in an accident and whenever i think about it, i am overcome with sadness. now that i'm a mother, it hurts even more.

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Danielle, CBB publsher's picture

meant to say my mother's

meant to say my mother's FRIEND'S granddaughter...

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Susie from Philly's picture

Such an awful thing.

Liza, my prayers are with you and your family during this ordeal. I'm so very sorry.

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